{"id":3110,"date":"2011-09-17T06:07:41","date_gmt":"2011-09-17T11:07:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/?p=3110"},"modified":"2011-09-17T16:30:58","modified_gmt":"2011-09-17T21:30:58","slug":"doggie-dilemma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/2011\/09\/doggie-dilemma\/","title":{"rendered":"Doggie Dilemma"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last month my very old cat died.  Magic was 19, and was, indeed magical.  He&#8217;d made it through any number of serious health crises, and had a good long life.  We were sorry to see him go on a lot of levels.<\/p>\n<p>One of those is that for years he and my dog Red were best buddies.  They wrestled and played, both indoors and out, admittedly not much in the last 2 years.  (How did I not get a picture of that?!)   They rested near each other outside,<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/redmagic-web.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/redmagic-web.jpg\" alt=\"Red &amp; Magic rest outside\" title=\"red-and-magic-rest-outdoors\" width=\"183\" height=\"108\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3114\" srcset=\"https:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/redmagic-web.jpg 183w, https:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/redmagic-web-150x88.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 183px) 100vw, 183px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>and often slept together in the same little bed indoors.<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/red-magic-nap.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/red-magic-nap.jpg\" alt=\"Red &amp; Magic (dog &amp; cat) nap\" title=\"red-and-magic-nap\" width=\"450\" height=\"338\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3111\" srcset=\"https:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/red-magic-nap.jpg 450w, https:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/red-magic-nap-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/red-magic-nap-150x112.jpg 150w, https:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/red-magic-nap-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>So now it&#8217;s just Red &#038; me.  Coming to me at 3 years old, Red was never one to play with toys, fetch, play tug of war, etc.; weaving &#038; making jewelry are incredibly boring for him.  Red&#8217;s always been a bit timid, and that may be getting worse as he ages &#8211; he&#8217;s now 11.<\/p>\n<p>Before Magic passed, I&#8217;d assumed I&#8217;d get another cat.  But now I&#8217;m really hesitant.  For most of his life, Magic was an indoor-outdoor cat; he came inside whenever he wanted (most of the time), but didn&#8217;t use a litter box &#8211; he did his business outside.  As he aged and became more frail, a litter box in the basement was critical, and while I didn&#8217;t resent doing it for him, I REALLY don&#8217;t want a litter box as a constant.  <\/p>\n<p>Probably more troubling, however, are the potential problems with my work and a cat.  How many cats do you know that wouldn&#8217;t find all those strings involved in weaving, or those little beads involved in making jewelry, the perfect playthings?  If most of what I made was jewelry, it would be a relatively easy thing to always cover what I was working on during time away from the table.  But yarn?  I have dozens of cones of yarn on the great rack my son made for me, yarn in bags (often a kitty favorite), yarn on shelves.  There&#8217;s no way to put it all inside something that&#8217;s kitty-safe.<\/p>\n<p>So I&#8217;ve been playing with the idea of getting another dog.  However I&#8217;ve tried two dogs at once a few times out here in the sticks, and it&#8217;s always a problem.    Without a fenced yard, two dogs will invariably leave the area and get into trouble of one kind or another, or in my experience, several kinds of trouble.<\/p>\n<p>Invisible fence initially seemed like a good answer, but now I think not.  Red really <em>hates<\/em> beeping, so would be easy to train, but would it make him crazy?  I think that&#8217;s likely.  Plus, with a second dog (and I wouldn&#8217;t get a puppy, only an adult), there would be that training period before Dog2 knew about the fence, and that might mean keeping that shelter-dog longer than we would like to.  (Interaction between the two dogs is critical.  If they&#8217;re not really liking each other, I&#8217;ve made the situation worse, not better.)  Additionally, given my yard configuration, the odds of placing the fence in a way that will both provide shade options for the pooches and not have a high likelihood of getting jabbed by my garden tools are quite low.<\/p>\n<p>So what about something more like farm fencing?  Galvanized, with 4&#8243; x 4&#8243; (or similar) openings, green metal posts driven into the ground.  More than twice the cost, and visually not so appealing.  Yet it has no training period, and will provide more security &#8211; nothing can get in, including dead stuff that Red <em>loves<\/em> to roll in.<\/p>\n<p>That seems reasonable.  Then I think about how much touching Red needs to be happy and secure.  If I had to divide my available pooch petting time between two dogs, will that make him jealous &#038; unhappy?  Or will having a full-time buddy totally offset that, and even make him more confident and happy?<\/p>\n<p>Too many unknowns!<\/p>\n<p><strong>So I&#8217;m seeking your input, readers.  What has your experience taught you?  What are your suggestions?<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last month my very old cat died. Magic was 19, and was, indeed magical. He&#8217;d made it through any number of serious health crises, and had a good long life. We were sorry to see him go on a lot of levels.<\/p>\n<p>One of those is that for years he and my dog Red were [&#8230;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[532],"class_list":["post-3110","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life-as-i-see-it","tag-pets","odd"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3110","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3110"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3110\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3113,"href":"https:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3110\/revisions\/3113"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3110"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3110"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/secondwindjewelry.com\/jewelry-weaving-blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3110"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}